When we think of communication, we often think of spoken words. But for many individuals with autism, especially those who are nonverbal, communication looks and sounds different.
That doesn’t mean it's any less meaningful.
Nonverbal autism doesn't mean a child has nothing to say—it means we need to tune in differently. Every movement, gesture, sound, and glance can carry intent, emotion, and thought. With the right tools and understanding, caregivers and educators can open up a world of meaningful interaction.
What Does "Nonverbal" Really Mean?
A person with nonverbal autism may not speak at all, may use only a few words, or may rely on alternative communication methods. Some may also be minimally verbal—using limited words or phrases—and others might have difficulty using spoken language functionally.
Being nonverbal is not a reflection of intelligence or desire to connect. Many individuals with autism understand far more than they can express, and they experience deep emotions and thoughts, just like anyone else.
Common Forms of Nonverbal Communication
Understanding the ways a nonverbal individual might express themselves is the first step to connection:
Tips for Supporting Nonverbal Communication
Here are simple, supportive strategies for families, caregivers, and educators:
1. Be a Keen Observer
Pay attention to your child's nonverbal cues. Do they push away food they don’t like? Do they bring you a toy when they want to play? Learning their patterns can help you decode their messages.
2. Use Visual Supports
Visual schedules, picture exchange systems (PECS), or simple drawings can help a child express needs and understand routines. These tools reduce frustration and give kids a sense of control.
3. Create Opportunities for Choice
Offer simple options like, “Do you want the red cup or the blue cup?” Holding up items or using picture cards gives nonverbal kids a voice and helps build decision-making skills.
4. Model Communication
Use both words and visual/aided communication tools during daily routines. If you’re using an AAC device, model how to use it. For example, press the “eat” icon before meals to show how to express hunger.
5. Encourage Joint Attention
Point to things, look at objects together, and celebrate shared moments. These interactions build a foundation for more complex communication later on.
6. Give Time to Respond
Wait patiently after offering a choice or asking a question. Processing takes time. Rushing can cause anxiety or discourage attempts to communicate.
7. Celebrate Every Effort
Whether it's a glance, a point, or a press of a button on an AAC device—acknowledge and praise it. Every small step is a big win on the path to connection.
Final Thoughts
Nonverbal doesn't mean silent. It means we have to listen in new ways.
By embracing alternative communication methods and focusing on connection over correction, we empower nonverbal individuals to share their voices with the world. With support, patience, and love, every child can learn to communicate in the way that works best for them.
Looking for more support?
Community Autism Services, a division of The Stepping Stones Group, offers ABA and integrated speech services and customized support for families and schools. Contact us today to learn how we can help your child thrive through communication—whatever form it takes.